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trash the stampede ([personal profile] featherduster) wrote2024-04-02 11:50 am
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mykidisthebest: (Make me like a charm on your necklace)

Re: Day 69 (nice), emotionshare

[personal profile] mykidisthebest 2024-04-13 06:51 pm (UTC)(link)
[tries to picture it




comes up empty]

We'll see how it goes. We're still traveling around a lot, so it'll have to wait until we're settled back in Korea regardless.
mykidisthebest: (never felt that much like medication)

Re: Day 69 (nice), emotionshare

[personal profile] mykidisthebest 2024-04-13 09:32 pm (UTC)(link)
You make it sound busier than it actually is. Raising furry kids is my job, and it's directly tied to saving the world. And the only kid that's independently acting on his own so far is the oldest; the other two still sleep most of the time.
mykidisthebest: (But you won’t have to cry)

Re: Day 69 (nice), emotionshare

[personal profile] mykidisthebest 2024-04-13 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
It's normal. They're doing fine. They don't completely separate from me until I give them their names, so until then they sleep a lot. The middle child, Seol, requested I not give him his name until after we've taken care of some business. And he's really attached to his youngest sibling, so they're staying together until then.
mykidisthebest: (Beyond what's been known and named)

Re: Day 69 (nice), emotionshare

[personal profile] mykidisthebest 2024-04-13 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Should I do both? I thought just one birthday would be good.
mykidisthebest: (to set apart the mornings from the night)

Re: Day 69 (nice), emotionshare

[personal profile] mykidisthebest 2024-04-14 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
[starts counting on his fingers]

Six parties for the kids, plus Yerim's birthday, plus Yoohyun's birthday, and I should do something for the rest of the household... I'll need your help with that, or I'm going to end up needing to make a dozen cakes a year.
mykidisthebest: (The city always hangs a bit lonely)

Re: Day 69 (nice), emotionshare

[personal profile] mykidisthebest 2024-04-14 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
[squints at him like he's CHECKING TO MAKE SURE!!! but there's a strong sense of relief in there too.]

I'll hold you to that, Uncle Minuet. Don't make my kids cry.
mykidisthebest: (The trees with their branches reach)

Re: Day 69 (nice), emotionshare

[personal profile] mykidisthebest 2024-04-14 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
What, is that a first for you? I know you've played with the kids from Styx's orphanage before; don't they call you uncle? If you help look after the kids that makes you an uncle. And it means you can shirk your duties. But they're good kids, so I know they won't give you trouble.
mykidisthebest: (I'd never go I just want to be invited)

Re: Day 69 (nice), emotionshare

[personal profile] mykidisthebest 2024-04-14 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
[quiet, for a few moments. thoughtful, like he's trying to piece together the puzzle of Minuet's life without having to ask him too many questions that will trigger more sadness]

'Mister' isn't as cute as 'uncle'. They take after Styx.
mykidisthebest: (wrote you that note)

Re: Day 69 (nice), emotionshare

[personal profile] mykidisthebest 2024-04-14 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
[he startles because he absolutely thinks it's his own grief for a second and tries to lock it down before realizing it's Minuet's. awkward.]

...In time. Give it a few months and they'll pick it up.
mykidisthebest: (All the vines that keep you)

Re: Day 69 (nice), emotionshare

[personal profile] mykidisthebest 2024-04-14 04:04 am (UTC)(link)
Stop doing that with your emotions, please, it's distracting.

[rubs at his face and allows himself a single comment about the emotions they're both trying to ignore]

...He's alive, you know. It'll be okay.
mykidisthebest: (woke up from your dream)

Re: Day 69 (nice), emotionshare

[personal profile] mykidisthebest 2024-04-14 04:51 am (UTC)(link)
I just mean...the grief is always still there. And sometimes you'll wake up and think it was all a dream and he's still gone. But hearing other people talk about him, and seeing him, and knowing he's still moving through the world...makes it easier to handle. Most days.
mykidisthebest: (gifts the day right after Christmas past)

Re: Day 69 (nice), emotionshare

[personal profile] mykidisthebest 2024-04-14 05:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Hopefully before then.

[he wants to tell him not to be so self-admonishing. but any way he could think to say it sounds harsh in his own mind, and he doesn't dare say it out loud]