I just mean...the grief is always still there. And sometimes you'll wake up and think it was all a dream and he's still gone. But hearing other people talk about him, and seeing him, and knowing he's still moving through the world...makes it easier to handle. Most days.
[he wants to tell him not to be so self-admonishing. but any way he could think to say it sounds harsh in his own mind, and he doesn't dare say it out loud]
chuckles a little trying to picture Styx and Minuet co-parenting though. chaos.]
In Korea, an uncle is "ahjussi". That's what Yerim calls me, and I'm raising her. I'm not perfect, but by now I'd say I'm plenty qualified to give advice on how to be a decent ahjussi. But I don't know if you need it. You're good with kids if you try.
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featherduster) wrote2024-04-02 11:50 am
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...In time. Give it a few months and they'll pick it up.
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I just gotta get Miss Melanie to stop using it, 'cause they're never gonna stray otherwise...
Anyway. 'Uncle Minuet's fine.
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[rubs at his face and allows himself a single comment about the emotions they're both trying to ignore]
...He's alive, you know. It'll be okay.
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Looks away sharply. ]
I know.
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Well.
... Once we've solved this place.
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[he wants to tell him not to be so self-admonishing. but any way he could think to say it sounds harsh in his own mind, and he doesn't dare say it out loud]
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Anyway, in the meantime, I'll just have to go to you for -- uh... not parenting advice.
[ That's terrifying. Sends a shiver down his spine thinking of it. ]
But. Uncling advice? If I'm gonna help out more when we go back home...
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chuckles a little trying to picture Styx and Minuet co-parenting though. chaos.]
In Korea, an uncle is "ahjussi". That's what Yerim calls me, and I'm raising her. I'm not perfect, but by now I'd say I'm plenty qualified to give advice on how to be a decent ahjussi. But I don't know if you need it. You're good with kids if you try.